Divisiveness Inhibits Critical Conversations And Destroys Relationships

What’s the solution?

No doubt, it isn’t easy to curb divisiveness. However, Noblesville Diversity Coalition (NDC) believes we can make a difference by starting here in our community. One way NDC makes a difference locally is by gathering community members around a table for rich and meaningful discussions through Community Conversations. Community Conversations is a collaborative effort to encourage more civil conversation in our personal and community lives.

NDC launched the Community Conversation initiative in 2022. Since its inception, over 400 people who live or work in Noblesville have gathered around the table to listen and share their thoughts and opinions on various topics. In 90 minutes, a small group of community members walk through three rounds of thought-provoking questions guided by a trained table host. After a brief introduction and some ground rules, the conversation begins. The trained host guides the pace and participation, ensuring equal opportunities for sharing and listening. The goal is to foster better ways to engage with one another and make Noblesville a more welcoming and inclusive community.

“It’s all about creating a safe environment for sharing and listening. In these conversations, not only have we seen community members leaning in and gaining a broader perspective, we’ve also seen common ground unearthed.” — Dana Randall, NDC Board President

The goal is civil conversations, increased understanding, and widening our perspectives. We can learn to see and hear each other through respectful and meaningful conversations. Together, we can grow in understanding, build connections, and bridge the divide that separates us.

Even though divisiveness exists, according to an Ipsos poll conducted in 2021, “Most Americans (71%) continue to agree there is more common ground among the American people than the media or political leaders portray.” https://www.ipsos.com/en-us/news-polls/public-agenda-hidden-common-ground-overcoming

For those interested in participating in their first Community Conversation, NDC will host a Community Conversation on “More Curious, Less Furious” on Wednesday, October 25, at 6:30 p.m. at The Gathering House at 1372 Cherry Street, Noblesville. Becoming more curious increases empathy, reduces fears, encourages self-awareness, and promotes a greater sense of connection. Curiosity sparks imagination and draws knowledge both to us and from us.

On Wednesday, November 8, at 6:00 p.m., a timely conversation will happen around “Navigating the Holidays with Family and Friends.” This discussion will center around family dynamics and expectations, allowing you to make the most of your holiday gatherings. This Community Conversation will be held at Mustard Seed Gardens located at 77 Metsker Lane, Noblesville.

Community Conversations are free but do require registration for planning purposes. Please visit www.noblesvillediversitycoalition.org for more information and to register.